Tough Post

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I debated long and hard on whether I should make this post. Some may not want to read it.

Pat is not doing well, we believe she is near end of life. After her release from the hospital I was counseled by physician’s and family, that she should be placed in “hospice” care. I somewhat reluctantly agreed as this means the end of “curative” treatment. It is the right decision.

Pat no longer recognizes me, she does not want to eat , and drinks little. Our job at this point is to make her as comfortable as possible. If you want to visit Pat, please feel free, but I would prefer you remember her as you knew her.

Thanks for all of your support,

Scott

 

 

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  2. Hey Scott,
    Saw Nance this week and she told me about Pat’s condition. We are so sorry Scott. You will be pleased with Hospice – they are AWESOME! Hugs

  3. I was so afraid that this would be the subject of the next post. I will always remember Pat walking into M & Gs with 2 or 3 dogs in tow. One time she arrived in Williamsburg at an event with 4 pups pulling her. She always supported GEGR events with a cheerful smile and that will be greatly missed. I am so sorry that the end is near and we will never experience her cheerful disposition again. You and your folks have been amazing throughout this 14-15 months. Our prayers are with you, Pat and family.

  4. Dear Scott,

    I cannot tell you how sad I was to read this today. Even though it seemed inevitable, we had truly hoped for a miracle. I will always have the best memories of Pat, dancing on the deck and her face lighting up when she talked about her beloved dogs. I posted a picture of all of us on the deck at the Mast a few days ago and it made me smile! She will truly be missed. I’m so glad I was blessed enough to have been her freind. My memories of her will always be memories of joy. She is very special….. sending hugs and love to you both.
    Cindy & Tom

  6. So very sad to read this, Scott. Pat is a wonderful, bright, happy lady – cancer has changed how she interacts with us, but it cannot change who she truly is. I can’t sing the praises of hospice services enough. They were such a help to my family during my mom’s illness, and I hope they will be to you, Pat and your family as well.

  7. So sorry to hear this news after Pat had come so far. We are thinking of you both. Take care and love to you both Liz, Andrew, Stephanie & Kathryn xxx

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